As some of you may have heard, I had an amazing holiday last weekend. I went back to Montana to celebrate with two of my former preschoolers (along with lots of other family members and friends), their graduation from medical school. While at the party many other parents of young twenty-something adults, who used to be my preschoolers, approached me to share what their grown kids were doing. It was truly fulfilling to hear how most had followed their passion in life, reaching out in the world to make their dreams come true. So many years later, this is my dream come true for each of them, too. It is yet my dream for your children who are now 3, 4 and 5 years old...
You may have heard me say that once a child is in my class, he or she is always one of "my kids." I care about my students, and their families, forever. Years later, I cherish still laughing and crying with them.
Already I know that this coming weekend will bring tears as I gather with others to both grieve and celebrate a little girl who lived fully for 9 years. How I wish she could have lived to be 90! Already, I miss her courageous and beautiful presence and possibility in our world. It is a privilige to have known her, to have been a part of her brief but shining life, to be in a circle of caring through the days of sunshine and storm. Now her glorious rainbow arches beyond us, into the great unknown.
Hug your children, grow their roots, nourish them with your time and love, let them take reasonable risks so they learn to persevere through the challenges. Encourage their positive dreams, great and small. When it's time to try their wings, stand back, let your heart fly with them and hope?, pray?, meditate?, wish on a star? for the best possible outcome. Raising children well requires the greatest love, faith and risk-taking a parent will ever know... I look forward to more celebrations with you in twenty years or so!